I had a dream last night where my sister appeared to have lost quite a bit of weight. She was looking good. Her husband John was still alive, too, as was mom. John used to want Barbara to lose weight. Oddly John, who was not much like himself in the dream but enough like him for me to say it was him, had this unreal hard on, black and like metal. Nobody seemed to notice it much and it seemed like it was just normal for a man to be hard in mixed company.